I really feel for my friend who lives too far away from me for me to come visit. For the last couple of weeks we have talked on the phone a few times a day, because her teen age daughter is threatening to hurt herself or run away. This is stressful for everyone in the household and even the counselors at school are offering no help or advice.
I told her to take these issues to her doctor. It’s totally necessary. Not only for the daughter’s own good but also for the rest of the family. It is always hard to make that kind of decision, of course. For the well being of my child though, I would make it in a heart beat. I’d rather leave it in the hands of professionals, than try and do what my friend is doing on her own because it just isn’t working. She of course is realizing this, even if it is hard, it’s for the best.
Hopefully all will turn out well for my friend’s daughter. The pain and helplessness in her voice makes me so sad, but perhaps she will go over the links and info I sent her, and look into the kind of help that is needed.
