My son is 15 and is going through that guy teen stuff that I have dreaded, since I already went through this with my other son. It’s not cool. Not at all. I swear it last from 14 until about 17. That is a rough time for young guys I have decided.
Thinking about grades, and in this son’s case grades AND sports…running track. He’s indecisive this year. But without pushing I do indeed keep hoping he will run again. So does the school. They need him on the Varsity team. That is a lot of pressure.
This son seems to be more explosive than my other son was though…unless I tend to block a lot of it out, since it wasn’t not a nice time to go through. I try to give him his space, but will not tolerate lack of respect, and that is what is happening. I’m seriously thinking about some family counseling. It couldn’t hurt and he has even agreed to it. But that could change in a heartbeat. We’ll see.